i have limited sympathy for people who get told “no” after a public proposal because public proposals are pretty much emotionally abusive
if you think it’s kinda cute, you can discuss it beforehand and then do a staged one later
but putting someone on the spot in front of a crowd of strangers (or worse, friends) and demanding they give you a yes or no answer to a complex question which will affect the rest of their life is
really not okay
someone finally fucking said it
tw: fat shaming, body policing
I’ve heard stories about fat people being discriminated against while at restaurants and in stores when they try to buy things that people think they “shouldn’t” but I never thought I would see it happen right in front of me.
I was at the store waiting in line at…
there’s a right way to handle this kind of shit and that would be exactly what this guy right here did. aww yeah.